Why Do Haters hate? (7 Reasons Why.)
But before that, I am sure when you read this title, a picture of some hater in your life crossed your mind. *Laughs* And you were even more curious to know why they just don't like you. You are not alone. It happens to everyone actually. There's bound to be someone out there that won't like you. No matter how much you give or do to the person. They don't even WANT to like you.
So the seven reasons;
--* They are Jealous
That was quite obvious right? Usually the reason why your hater hates you is because he or she's been afflicted with the green eyed monster's disease called Jealousy.
Everybody gets jealous. It's absolutely normal. And it's healthy to an extent because you get to know how to improve yourself in perceived unsuccessful areas. But when jealousy gets much and is not controlled, it can lead you start to hate the object of your jealousy. Moderacy is key, as always. So, your hater is likely very super jealous of you. Maybe you have that car and he or she doesn't have, so they start to hate. It's jealousy. You have what they don't have, and they don't like it. So, they start to hate.
--* They are insecure.
Maybe they're suffering from low self esteem issues or whatsoever. And they don't know how to handle these feelings or deal with them, so they convert it to hatred. They are low self esteemed, so they see you in all of your radiance and all their negative thoughts about how they're not living up to standard start to plague them. They start to feel insecure. Out of insecurities comes hatred. And there, they start to hate.
--* You achieve things they can't.
Some people just start to hate because they believe there's no way, absolutely no way in this world, you can do great things in this world and they haven't done anything yet. They're irritated, then they want to just hate you. So, they do.
--* Because they are not happy with themselves.
It's a pity really. And we really should pity them. They feel their life is not what they want it to be. So, they're unhappy. And so they feel other people's lives shouldn't be good either. And if it's good, they start to hate.
--* Because you're not like them.
Your haters would like you if your life was like theirs. So, you could lament about how annoying life is together. But when they notice that your life is so different from theirs, they start to wonder what makes you deserve a better life than theirs. Why your life is not like theirs? And snap! They start to hate. They roll their eyes at your achievements.
--* Because you're way out of their league.
And they can't catch up. Because you're too fast. You're doing you, and excelling at it. And they can't meet up.
--* Because they just don't want to LIKE you.
Simple as that. Some people just choose to hate you for no valid reason. You've probably heard that one can love another person deeply and not be able to pin point why. So does hatred. Sometimes someone just hates you because they don't WANT to like you. At all.
But, for whatever reason they might hate you, keep being you. You are your best gift. Your sense of identity and uniqueness is also a gift to the world.
Don't let anyone make you believe you are not worth success. Some people just want to pull people down. Knowing that someone hates you can be disturbing. But keep your head high. Remember those who love you and think of the beautiful things they've done to make you special. And quickly you'll forget haters.
Because really, who has time for them?